Together is Better
“When you encourage others, you in the process are encouraged because you’re making a commitment and difference in that person’s life. Encouragement really does make a difference.”
“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?”
In many conversations, the topic of our limited options of being with those we know and care about ultimately comes up. We lament that the kids aren’t able to go back to in-person school, analyze how fewer hugs and personal interactions affect our mood, or muse about the family and friends we long to appreciate close up rather than via a device screen. Even our ability to enjoy the rewards of being with others as we serve those in need has been drastically restricted.
Everyone is affected to some degree by these current disruptions but an unbelievably humbling reality is that essential workers of all types daily put themselves at risk for our safety and convenience and many families are struggling both financially and emotionally. The need for supporting others has perhaps never been greater. I know we can do it! There are good things just waiting for us to be ready again if we all stick together and care about one another.
Start by caring for yourself. If you find you are missing someone, tell them! Make a phone call, send a text or an email, write a note and place it at their door or send it in the mail. Let them know they crossed your mind, that they visited in your memories, that you care about them and miss them. It always buoys my spirits when I “visit” with a family member, friend, or acquaintance.
Then, keep it going! Look for ways to support others in your community and beyond. While opportunities for in-person volunteering are extremely limited right now, there are so many ways to help from home. Countless charitable organizations and community groups are seeking help and providing information about how you can assist them. One of our local charities focuses on giving a hand up, not a handout. Everyone needs a hand up at some point in their lives, I know I sure have. I will forever be grateful for those who were there to reach out. If you are able to be that hand up right now, it’s an opportunity you don’t want to miss.
Another great way to reach out is by supporting those who are safe and secure, but experiencing isolation and loneliness. Sending notes to folks who may not otherwise have contact from someone who cares can have a huge impact on their lives and yours. A quick online search discovered a plethora of resources. Options include making small pieces of art with a note to share, writing notes or letters of encouragement, or sending a donation to cover the cost of postage for those who have time to write or create but not the funds to get them to their destination.
A memory from my days teaching in elementary school comes from the seven habits and is perfect to wrap up my thoughts for today. It brings me right back to where I started: “Together is Better!”